I’m the romantic type of guy. The one that likes happy endings in movies and the one that thinks cuddling, a hug and stimulating conversation are far more important than sex (not that I’m asexual). Think of someone who is likely to get a girl unexpected little presents, someone respectful, loyal and quiet, someone whose behaviour would qualify is totally beta. Yeah, that’s me and I’m not ashamed of being such a guy. I can’t be an alpha, because it’s both biologically impossible and psychologically destructive. I don’t want to play with women, I don’t want to date around for ‘fun’ and I’m probably incapable of doing the aforementioned anyway.
 
I know for sure what my position is the social hierarchy. I’m ok with it, it’s perfectly logical. Women like dominant men as much as men like beautiful women. I’m not that much of a dominant man hence my standing reflects my nature to a tee. My nature is intellectual, shy and boring and my basic offer to a potential partner is stability and a sense of prudence, not coolness, status or money.
 
There you go, I’ve listed my main characteristics in a rather complicated way, but I’m sure you understand. I just wanted you to know where I come from, the ‘backend’  for my thoughts. Hopefully you will come to realise why I think the way I do and maybe even share some of my opinions.

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